This weekend caught me several times shaking my head and wondering, “How in the world did I wind up having these experiences?”
My dear friend Julie from Virginia asked me about 6 weeks ago to join her and a few friends for a weekend in Philadelphia. I didn’t give it much serious thought because it was the first weekend after the girls were out of school, Katie has softball games EVERY FRIDAY night, etc., etc., etc.
But my dear husband said, “Why don’t you go? I can handle things here.”
So Friday found me boarding a plane from Dayton heading to Philly. I really hate the taking off part of flying but I thought perhaps this time would be okay since there was a nun boarding my flight and I just couldn’t imagine God letting a plane crash with a nun on board. I have actually been known to hold the hand of a complete stranger while taking off and this time it looked like I was in luck. A very handsome man sat down next to me. But it was not to be. A few minutes later a woman who smelled very much like stale popcorn booted him right out of that seat and took his place. So I settled for putting my ear buds in and listening to the Jayhawks and praying without ceasing.
Because Julie works in the hotel business, we were able to stay at the Ritz-Carlton without taking out a personal loan. It was mighty fancy, I tell ya. There were about six layers of sheets on the bed that were a bit of a puzzle to me at first. Finally I just slipped in between two of them and called it done.
We were also fortunate enough to get to see the final performance of the Pennsylvania Ballet’s performance of Romeo and Juliet. Now, previous to this weekend my sole experience with the ballet had been a couple of performances of the Nutcracker at the community theater. So I was pretty much prepared to dislike the ballet. I was really wrong. It was so beautiful. The costumes were beautiful, the dancers were beautiful, the set was amazing. Best of all, Julie knew (because Julie knows EVERYBODY) the conductor, Beatrice Affron, from music school. They met when they were 6 and 7 years old, went to music school together for many years, lost touch for a bit and then in a very cool way reconnected. She was lovely and smart and was kind enough to take us backstage during one of the intermissions. There we were able to see the dancers close up. They were warming up for the next act and let me just say that if you or I attempted some of those stretches they were doing we would be in traction for the next six months. It was painful just to watch them. And the ballet guys in their tights up close. I felt vaguely like I should avert my eyes.
We were able to eat some amazing food. The food at Alma De Cuba was nothing short of spectacular. The flavors were out of this world. The downtown market provided breakfast the next morning with a variety of egg dishes, po boys, apple fritters and mac and cheese (I think it should be made an official breakfast food). We topped if off Saturday night with dinner at the Ritz whose chef just happens to be Jennifer from last season’s Top Chef. I had some baked halibut that came out of the kitchen looking like two fluffy marshmallows and tasted like nothing I’ve ever had in my life. (This was the only part of my trip that impressed Elena andyou should have seen how big her eyes got when I told her.) I have clearly passed my love for reality TV on to my youngest daughter.
So you can see why I call this my Non-reality weekend. It was about as far from my normal life as I could have possibly imagined. And I didn’t even tell you about the the Comic Con convention that made for unusually entertaining people watching, the part where one of our party crashed one of the many wedding receptions going on in the hotel and brought us all back pretzels to eat, the hostess that may or may not have been a man in woman’s clothing, or the Egyptian cabbie that I will be friends with forever.
Maybe it really was just a dream.



























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